Trusting Your Intuition: The Job Offer That Wasn’t Meant to Be
A Note from Me
Back in January, I shared that I’d update you in April when my job was set to end. Well, here we are—and while I wish I had brighter news, the truth is a bit heavier. Though the job technically didn’t end, the changes that followed have left me (and many others) feeling disheartened. So rather than write about all the discouraging details, I wanted to share this recent experience—something that reminded me of the importance of trusting myself and listening to my intuition. Sometimes, life redirects us in quiet ways before the big shifts happen. This is one of those moments.
Trusting Your Intuition: The Job Offer That Wasn’t Meant to Be
Sometimes, the best decision is the one you don’t make. Recently, I was faced with a job offer that, on paper, seemed like a great opportunity. The salary, the housing component, and the job title all looked good. But something felt... off. My body reacted before my mind could fully process why. That sinking feeling, that uneasy knot in my stomach—it was my intuition trying to tell me something. And this time, I listened.
The Red Flags I Couldn’t Ignore
As I started reviewing the offer letter, my concerns deepened. Nowhere in the document were sick days, paid time off, or health insurance mentioned. That alone made me pause. A company that truly values its employees typically provides these basics without question. If they weren’t in the contract, what else would I have to fight for?
Then, I noticed the level of micromanagement—even down to assigned parking spaces that could be changed at any time. It became clear that this was not a job where I would feel secure. To top it off, they expected an immediate response, giving me barely any time to think things through. The rush felt forced, and my gut told me to slow down.
The Power of Keeping an Open Mind
Even while this offer was in my inbox, I had another interview lined up. Part of me almost canceled it, assuming the Petaluma job was the one. But I pushed myself to go through with it—and I’m so glad I did. From the very start of the interview, the company laid out their benefits, vacation time, sick days, and even an employee relief fund for emergencies. They showed me what true support looks like.
That’s when it hit me: the contrast between these two companies was stark. One made me feel uncertain, like I could be let go at any moment. The other made me feel valued.
Listening to My Body & Intuition
When I initially read the Petaluma offer, my whole body felt uneasy. I lost my appetite, and my energy drained. But once I made the decision to decline it, I felt lighter. That is how I know I made the right call. Our bodies often recognize danger before our minds do, and this experience was a powerful reminder to trust that internal guidance.
What’s Next?
Now, I have an interview with a company that feels much more aligned with what I truly want. In the meantime, I’m taking time for self-care—resetting, reflecting, and even working on my blog. This experience reinforced something I’ve always believed: when you trust your intuition, the right path will reveal itself.
To anyone facing a big decision: listen to your gut. Pay attention to how your body reacts. And never feel pressured to accept something that doesn’t sit right with you. The right opportunity will come, and when it does, you’ll know.
Have You Ever Had a Gut Feeling About a Job?
I’d love to hear your experiences! Have you ever turned down an opportunity because something felt off? Share your thoughts in the comments!
